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The Illusion of Love: When Chemistry Becomes a Cage

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The Illusion of Love: When Chemistry Becomes a Cage The Illusion of Love: When Chemistry Becomes a Cage Two Lives a Week: In My Words – A Reflection on Boundaries, Awareness, and Walking Away Yes, I have feelings for you—but in a world where women increasingly have to be their own detectives, bodyguards, and protectors, the slightest hint of a red flag and I’m out. As part of my constant push for domestic violence awareness, I’ve become hyper-attuned to spotting those warning signs. I wish I could help more women do the same. But I won’t lie—it’s exhausting. It’s lonely. It’s disheartening to always be on guard. “You let your guard down, and you get heartbroken. And then? Another MSE display of affection.” That incredible high—the love bombing, the intoxicating chemistry,...
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In Memoriam: Semra Aysal In Memoriam: Semra Aysal Week of June 2018 Two Lives a Week: Global Edition Remembering Semra Aysal Semra Aysal was a compassionate and vibrant woman who was eagerly preparing for motherhood. At seven months pregnant, she was filled with joy and excitement for the future. Tragically, her life and the life of her unborn child were cut short in June 2018 in Butterfly Valley, Turkey. The Tragic Incident Semra’s husband, Hakan Aysal, took her to a scenic location in Butterfly Valley, Mugla, under the guise of a romantic outing. During their time there, Hakan pushed Semra off a cliff, staging the incident to appear accidental. Investigators later uncovered that Hakan had taken out life insurance in Semra’...
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In Memoriam: Emerald "Emmy" Wardle In Memoriam: Emerald "Emmy" Wardle Week of June 14 – June 20, 2020 Two Lives a Week: Global Edition Remembering Emerald "Emmy" Wardle Emerald "Emmy" Wardle was a bright and kind-hearted young woman from the Hunter Valley region in New South Wales, Australia. At just 18 years old, she was full of promise, with her whole future ahead of her. Emmy's untimely passing has left her family, friends, and community in profound grief. The Tragic Incident On June 20, 2020, Emmy lost her life during a devastating incident at her shared home in the Hunter Valley. Her boyfriend, Jordan Miller, was found to have killed her during a drug-induced psychotic episode...

In Memoriam: Saga Forsgren Elneborg

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In Memoriam: Saga Forsgren Elneborg In Memoriam: Saga Forsgren Elneborg Week of April 28 - May 4, 2023 Two Lives a Week: Global Edition Remembering Saga Forsgren Elneborg Saga Forsgren Elneborg was a vibrant young woman, eagerly anticipating the arrival of her first child. Her life was tragically cut short, leaving a void in the hearts of her family and friends in Örebro, Sweden. The Tragic Incident On April 29, 2023, Saga, who was seven months pregnant, was found deceased in her apartment in Örebro. The investigation revealed that she had been strangled. Her partner, Mohamedamin Abdirisek Ibrahim, was arrested and later convicted for her murder. This heart-wrenching case underscores the critical need for awareness and inter...

In Memoriam: Sofia Castell

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In Memoriam: Sofia Castelli In Memoriam: Sofia Castelli Week of July 28 - August 3, 2023 Two Lives a Week: Europe Edition Remembering Sofia Castelli Sofia Castelli was a bright young woman with a promising future ahead. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and the community in Cologno Monzese, Milan. The Tragic Incident On July 29, 2023, Sofia was tragically killed in her home in Cologno Monzese, Milan. Her former partner, Zakaria Atqaoui, later admitted responsibility for the act. This devastating case highlights the urgent need for increased measures to protect individuals from domestic violence and provide support for those at risk. Community Response This tragic loss has sparked a ...

Two Lives a Week Memorial:

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Latin America Edition Two Lives a Week Memorial: Latin America Edition In memory of a Young Woman and her 5-Month-Old Baby Honoring Their Lives, Demanding Change Memorial for Victims in Latin America Remembering a Young Woman and her Baby On March 24, 2024, in the Argentina Sur neighborhood of Jobabo, Las Tunas Province, Cuba, we lost a young woman and her 5-month-old baby to the scourge of domestic violence. Their lives were tragically taken by her partner, leaving behind a community grieving their loss and demanding change. The tragedy has shed light on the critical issue of femicides in Cuba, with advocacy groups calling for systemic changes and protective measures. Organizations like "YoSíTeCreo" and "Alas Tensas" have emphasized the urgency of establi...

Standing Up for Your Value: A Journey of Self-Worth

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Standing Up for Your Value: A Journey of Self-Worth Standing Up for Your Value: A Journey of Self-Worth Two Lives a Week: In My Words – A Reflection on Self-Worth and Growth Standing Up for Your Value: A Journey of Self-Worth Standing up for your value is as simple—and as powerful—as deciding what you’re no longer willing to tolerate. Maybe they don’t value you. Maybe they never will. But that doesn’t matter. What matters is that you learn to see yourself as someone of high value . Your intelligence, your humor, your care, your patience, your generosity—these are gifts, and they should be given only to those who are truly worthy. Sometimes, that means choosing to stay single. Why? Because being single reinforces your value by proving to yourself that you can thrive alone. Knowing you can a...

Is My Value Based on How They Value Me?

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Is My Value Based on How They Value Me? Is My Value Based on How They Value Me? Two Lives a Week: In My Words – A Reflection on Self-Worth Is My Value Based on How They Value Me? For as long as I can remember, I’ve struggled with understanding my own value. Growing up, I never had the chance to establish a solid sense of self-worth. Others set my value early—and they set it low. Over time, I unknowingly accepted this, and it shaped the way I navigated relationships, particularly in the dating world. I found myself attracting men who were secretly attached or who saw me as a low-value woman (LVW). For a while, I agreed with that perception and played the role they expected. Turning Low Value into True Worth How do we change those feelings of inadequacy? H...

It’s Okay to Be "Boring": Embracing Being Ordinary

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It’s Okay to Be "Boring": Embracing Being Ordinary It’s Okay to Be "Boring": Embracing Being Ordinary It’s taken me years to become comfortable with being "ordinary." For a long time, I struggled with the idea of fading into the background, hoping to blend in and not be noticed. If I came across as boring, quiet, or not particularly exciting, I was okay with that. But the truth is, I didn’t always feel this way. For years, I doubted myself when people implied that if I didn’t push boundaries or try something new, I was dull. I worried that if I didn’t go along with the trends or the expectations, I’d be seen as "boring." For a while, I convinced myself that I needed to be more fun, more adventurous, and open to all sorts of new ideas—especially in the bedroom. I learned countless new tricks, all in an effort to stay interesting and hold someone’s attention. But eventually, it wasn’t enough. And honestly, ...

The Misconception of the Benefits of Male Domination: Lessons from the 1950s

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The Misconception of the Benefits of Male Domination: Lessons from the 1950s The Misconception of the Benefits of Male Domination: Lessons from the 1950s Introduction: Looking Back at the 1950s The 1950s are often romanticized as a time of order and stability, where traditional gender roles prevailed. Men were the breadwinners; women were the homemakers. Yet beneath this veneer of perfection were glaring inequalities that limited women’s autonomy, creativity, and opportunities. The Progress We’ve Made Since the 1950s Education: Women now surpass men in earning college degrees in many countries, breaking barriers that once kept them out of higher education. Workforce Participation: Women have entered industries and roles once deemed "for men only," contributing to economic growth and inno...